I quote:
"How can anyone even love you for who you are if you become someone else to be with them?"

We are not love seeker but we are love bringer. Love is essentially part of human. But, human can refuse to love so we have "hate", so human can also be hater but not essentially human hater but this is misdirection of who we truly are. When we change what is designed to us, its not a power, its not strength but its weakness. Yes, we are weak, we are weak to face the reality of life that indeed we can, but sometimes if not oftentimes we don't because we opted to choose not what we can.